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Not Standing Out
Let’s all take care of our practice in these midsummer days. Doing the Buddha’s practice makes everything better.
Part of that is not trying to stand out. Dogen says
Standing out has no benefit; being different from others is not our conduct.
When we want to stand out, it’s usually about ego. We want to be special or different because we want to be noticed and rewarded. We dress to impress others with our coolness. We make sure everyone knows how smart we are, how hard we’re working. We want others to admire us or give us stuff. We’re not doing it to help the situation. We’re doing it for ourselves.
The previous abbot of Zuioji, Ikko Narasaki Roshi, used to tell us that when we were all lined up with our shaved heads and identical robes at formal tea, he could see who we really are. Young people in Tokyo thought they were expressing themselves with their clothes and behavior, but they were just imitating each other. They thought they were being themselves, but they were being their idea of who they were.
I love the Iowa prairie – it teaches about not being remarkable. The picture I included here of one of our prairie reserves is a little small, but I think we can still see the various plants. There are blue and lavender flowers, grass seeds, trees, and other things growing together. Each is different, but rather than trying to stand out and draw our attention, each contributes to the whole. Looking closely, we see that each plant is remarkable and beautiful in itself. Truly, it doesn’t need to especially stand out to draw our appreciation. It is a jewel in the midst of other jewels, all supporting each other, being a prairie.
Let’s be like this in our daily life. Rather than standing out according to our ideas of who we want to be, let’s stand out as who we are. Let’s see where we fit and function fully in that place, bring wellbeing to everything. Let’s offer who we are rather than an artificially-constructed shell. If we are an imperfect person with many problems, let’s offer that person to the functioning of the world. Who knows? Our imperfections and problems could be helpful somewhere.
Whoever we are is just fine. We are one of those jewels, remarkable and beautiful in itself, that make up this world. We are a jewel in the summer prairie ― there’s no need to be any more than that.
You can find Dogen’s words in Sugawara, Kenshu, “Dojo Daishu Ichinyo” (In activity and stillness, at one with the community) in Sotoshu Basic Key Terms at https://www.sotozen.com/eng/.
The original is in Dogen’s Pure Standards for the Zen Community, translated by Taigen Leighton and Shohaku Okumura, p. 63.
Zuiko sits in the zendo at every zazen period listed below. Please sit with her whenever you can. Just sitting quietly can be helpful in times like these.
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Monday Night Dharma – by Zoom – Monday nights , 7:00– 8:00 p.m. Contact us for the link.
Introduction to Zazen – by Zoom – Wednesday, June 16 , 7:30 – 9:00 p.m. Contact us for the link.
All-day Sitting — June 20, 5:00 am to 4:40 pm — please register
Sangha Meeting — June 27
Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday
12:15 – 12:55 zazen
Tuesday evenings – 20 minute zazen periods
6:30 – 6:50 zazen
6:50 – 7:00 kinhin
7:00 – 7:20 zazen
7:20 – 7:30 kinhin
7:30 – 8:00 zazen
Wednesday and Thursday evenings – 40 minutes zazen periods
6:30 – 7:10 zazen
7:10 – 7:20 kinhin
7:20 – 8:00 zazen
Sunday zazen – by Zoom
9:00 – 9:40 sitting
9:45 – 10:15 dharma talk
10:15 – 11:00 check in and discussion
Quote of the week
From The Great Spring: Writing, Zen, and This Zigzag Life